Courses & Webinars
Using the latest brain science and trauma-informed tools, Out of the Wreckage is designed to help you understand what has happened to you, release what keeps you stuck, and move toward a life of clarity, strength, and renewal. When betrayal shatters your world, it can feel impossible to breathe, let alone rebuild—this course shows you how.
Get a quick-start on your journey towards healing the heart you broke. If you’ve broken trust and want to repair the relationship, this one-hour webinar will show you what real healing requires — not from a place of shame, but from responsibility, clarity, and action.
This one-hour training will show you what boundaries actually are (and what they’re not), why they’re essential after betrayal, and how they protect your heart, your healing, and your future. You’ll learn how boundaries help you stop absorbing someone else’s chaos, regain emotional stability, and reconnect with your own voice and intuition.
Healing after betrayal doesn’t happen by accident—it requires structure, safety, and the right kind of guidance. In this 2-hour couples webinar, you’ll learn the essential steps to move out of survival mode and into real repair. We’ll cover the key areas that make or break healing—understanding trauma responses, rebuilding trust, processing emotions together, and creating a shared path forward.
This course is designed to help couples and individuals reintegrate their sexuality after sexual abuse and sexual betrayal due to porn or affairs.
KATHAROS PRESENTS
“She Is Free”
She Is Free is a groundbreaking Katharos course for women—led by nationally respected trauma and addiction coach Melissa Elguera—designed to bring deep healing and transformation to women bound by porn, betrayal wounds, and sexual brokenness.
Whole Heart Transformation
Community
For Betrayers, Betrayed Partners, and Couples Healing After Betrayal
Healing after betrayal requires more than insight, remorse, or time — it requires emotional maturity, emotional processing, and the ability to stay present with reality and with others. The Whole Heart Transformation Community was created for individuals and couples who are ready to grow in these capacities and commit to real, lasting change.
This community integrates the core work of Betrayer to Heart Healer and Out of the Wreckage, offering a structured, guided, and relationally safe environment for betrayed partners, betrayers, and couples navigating the aftermath of betrayal.
What This Community Provides
Live Support Twice a Month
Growth in Emotional Maturity & Emotional Processing
Group Coaching & Practical Guidance
Community Support — Safe, Open, and Monitored
Tools, Resources & Worksheets
A Structured Container for Change
Commitment & Investment
Because healing and emotional maturity develop over time, participation in the Whole Heart Transformation Community is a 12-month commitment
Members may choose:
Monthly investment (12-month commitment)
Pay in full upfront
This commitment anchors consistency, accountability, and depth — and protects the safety of the community.
Sign Up as the Betrayed
Sign Up as the Betrayer
Sign Up as a Couple
Books
Daily Core Values Journal - Paperback
Support for the Betrayed - Ebook
Whole Heart Transformation
Podcast
This podcast is designed to open your heart and mind around difficult subjects that are actually the keys to heart transformation. I will be discussing sex, identity, God, emotions, societies affects on all of this and how all of these things have been twisted. This podcast is to help you untangle the lies from the truth. And to help you start the process of Whole Heart Transformation.